- Detaching In Love
- The Silent Treatment
- Anger at Family Members........
- Live encouragingly
- Resisting Negativity......
- Letting Go of the Need to Control ......
- Don't Panic - Melody Beattie
- Moving Forward....Melody Beattie
- Responsibility...Melody Beattie
- Hanging on to Old Relationships - Melody Beattie
- Competition Between Martyrs..Melody Beattie
- ACOA Characteristics
- ACOA word wide meetings list
- ACOA Promises
- Feeling Good - Melody Beattie
- Surrender.....Melody Beattie
- very good description of Boundaries
- Being Vulnerable...Melody Beattie
- NEW HERE
- Letting go of old Beliefs...Melody Beattie
- Detachment...Melody Beattie
- Withholding...Melody Beattie
- When Things Don't Work...Melody Beattie
- Achieving Harmony (good reading)
- accepting change...Meloday Beattie
- God's will ....M.B.
- Children Learn what they Live
- Spiritual Health - Even Though.........
- receiving....M.B.
- who knows best?.... M.B.
- Celebrate .... M.B.
- Survivor Guilt...M.B.
- Getting It All Out....M.B.
- finally revieved new mtg packet from wso
- ACA vs ACOA
- how do i take care of self
- Acoa promises
- THE PROBLEM.......ACOA CHARACTERISTICS
- THE SOLUTION
- intimacy?
- The ACOA laundry list
- Core Issues of Adult Children of Alcoholics
- The Problem
- The Solution
- 12 Steps
- Changing Patterns......
- inner child..............
- Boundaries
- Saying NO >>>>>>>>>>> !
- Given Me Answer
- ACOA - I Finally Realized the Life I was Living was not Normal!!
- ...But Now I See
- So Overwhelmed
- Rage
- It Seems I am Not Indestructible!
- just and only
- there is always a cost
- Hate Them!!!
- Women of Faith, Robin McGRaw
- Styles of distored thinking............
- new- i need to tell my story
- is anybody there??
- Hi I'm new
- Adult child and primary care giver of an alcoholic
- Telling friends about your past
- Is it easier for the alcoholic?
- hi!
- I need to talk to make sure that I am not nuts!
- Completly lost not sure how this all works, but Hi!
- Hello
- you won't believe this
- help i don't know how to deal with my mom
- Developing an intolerence instead of alcholism?
- Know what you can control - and what you can't
- Over-Responsibility
- Taking co-dependency very seriously
- relapsed again
- Choose what goes into your mind
- Growing beyond abuse
- New to this
- Healing Childhood Experiences
- New here
- can i help my mom?
- finding freedom in No.
- Gratitude
- Pondering: Why do I feel I NEED chaos? Or, why do I sabotage myself so much?
- Cutting ties...too much?
- My first Al-Anon meeting...
- Tough Day
- Tough Day
- Feeling Free One Day at a Time
- Life Beyond Addiction...do you see yourself?
- Should I go or stay away?
- Anyone completely cut contact with parents-permanent or temporary?
- New & My Story
- (SIMPLY SILENCE) just for today
- Dysfunctional Families (article)
- Adults Abused as Children
- Boundaries ?Essential to Healthy Relationships
- Cut Ties
- ACOA - the problem...........
- The ACOA Solution...............
- 12 Steps of ACOA
- Children Learn What They Live
- The Twelve Promises of Co-Dependents Anonymous
- Ten Great Things About Recovering From Someone Else's Addiction
- Codependent characteristics and attitudes
- Setting Boundaries
- For those of you who left your situation...
- Risk Taking for ACOA's.......
- issues with excess and control?
- Solving Problems
- Hello ALL
- Time to say goodbye
- Trying to break free
- LOST IN A NIGHTMARE
- New Member
- Please Help
- Complete confusion. Really angry, again.
- great info concerning detachment and healthy boundaries
- specific steps to detach...........
- Language of letting go has moved to CODA FORUM
- New to site
- Just waiting...
- acoa newcomer living w/addict
- journey of 1000 miles begins with one step
- ACoA newbie
- Happy New Year...?
- New, too
- Father Driving drunk Still I need Help
- why does it hurt so bad.
- 32 and still struggling
- new
- Hi, I'm rediscovering I'm an ACOA
- Need help with balance
- dysfunctional family
- Adult Survivors of Child Abuse
- Insomnia
- Is it too late to help my mother?
- alcoholic children
- Hi Everyone
- Hi All
- My Story - Need Help.. (long post)
- anger towards Mother
- hi, i am new at sharing too!
- New member- Cathi
- new here, feels good
- A Break Through!!!
- New here need support
- letter of forgiveness to my Father
- Looking to make friends like me....
- Holiday - triggers for ACOA
- New Member
- my neurosis
- The Reality of the Inner Child
- ACOA newcomer
- ACA Phone Bridge Meetings
- Advice needed PLEASE!!!!!!
- ACA COMES OF AGE
- The Cycle:grabbing on then letting go
- New Here...hello and a few questions...
- Tony A’s 12 Steps of Recovery
- New here...So glad I found you.
- don't usually share
- Need some advice
- Accepting my Humanness.
- ACA's No Crosstalk Rule
- ACA Annual Conventions
- The ACA Twelve Promises
- Mother's Day Blues
- Poem 2 Mom
- The Fantasy Bond
- The Basic Five
- The fence
- The new ACA text
- New here and really hesitant...
- The Lost Child
- How to get started in ACA recovery?
- Counter-Enlightenment
- Relieved to find support
- foreign newbie :)
- New To The Group -- Where Do I Begin
- Nutshell version of my story