Quotes, Sayings & Slogans

[admin]

Sobriety does not remove responsibility.


There is strength in surrender.


Never take recovery for granted.


With God's help, even our failures can be useful in our recovery.

[admin]

NUTS Not Using The Steps

C H A N G E = Choosing Honesty Allows New Growth Every day

B E S T = Been Enjoying Sobriety Today?

F I N E = Free, Independent, New and Energetic

T H I N K = The Happiness I Never Knew

S O B E R = Son Of a Basket, Everything's Real

A A's - R - U S = Alcoholics Anonymous Recovery Unity Service

S T E P S = Solutions To Every Problem in Sobriety

[admin]

A S A P = Always Say A Prayer

F I N E = Free, Independent, New and Energetic

B O G G L E = Bad Or Good, God Loves Everyone

[admin]

In A.A., it does not matter what our material condition is, what matters greatly is our spiritual condition.

[admin]

F A I L U R E =
Fearful, Arrogant, Insecure, Lonely, Uncertain, Resentful, Empty.

G O D = Good Orderly Direction

E G O = Easing God Out

A C T I O N = Any Change Toward Improving One's Nature.

S O B E R = Spiritually On Beam; Everything's Right

H A L T = Hope, Acceptance, Love, Tolerance

C A R E = Comforting And Reassuring Each other

[admin]

One of the main differences between an active alcoholic and a recovering alcoholic can be expressed as a matter of tense;, the active alcoholic tends to live in the future or in the past, the sober alcoholic strives to live in the present.


We in A.A. have the privilege of living two lives in one lifetime, one life of drunkenness, failure and defeat; then, through the grace of God and A.A., another life of sobriety, happiness and usefulness.


If we don't introduce the newcomer to the Big Book, how will he or she know what they don't know.

[admin]

Surrender and willingness are the keys to our recovery.

[admin]

If you claim to be sober; look it, act it, sound it particularly
at meetings since we have a program of attraction.

[admin]

If we are not part of the solution we are part of the problem.

[admin]

Reality does not change; our perception of it does when we sober
up.

[admin]

Doing what is written in the Big Book produces the promises in the Big Book.

[admin]

One drink is too many and a thousand not enough.

[admin]

A N O N Y M O U S =
Actions, Not Our Names, Yield Maintenance Of Unity and Service.

[admin]

A C T I O N = Any Change Toward Improving One's Nature

[admin]

S W A T = Surrender, Willingness, Acceptance, and Trust

[admin]

H O P E = Happy Our Program Exists

[admin]

H O P E = Hang On; Pray Every day

[admin]

A S A P = Always Say A Prayer

[admin]

D E N I A L = Don't Even Notice I Am Lying.

[admin]

F E A R = Forever Escaping And Retreating

[admin]

H O W = Honest, Open, and Willing

[admin]

It is better to offer help too soon then risk being too late.

[admin]

Alcoholism does not take a vacation when we do.

[admin]

Wouldn't we be better off if we shared experiences rather then
opinions.

[admin]

Alcoholism is a disease: an obsession of the mind that compels us to drink, and a sensitivity of the body that condemns us to go mad or die if we keep on.

[admin]

An alcoholic is in no greater peril than when he takes sobriety for granted.

[admin]

The essence of all growth is a willingness to change for the better.

[janbear]

An alcoholic/addict is a person
who wants to be held while he's isolating.

Unknown Author

[admin]

A definition of sobriety is the ability to live comfortably, peacefully and joyously with ourselves.


A.A. is truly God's creation.


Every meeting has its own atmosphere and personality, if you don't like one, go to another.


Our recovery involves coming to terms with ourselves as we really are.


On alternatives to A.A. for the alcoholic; death if you're
lucky, insanity if you're not--take your pick.

[admin]

A C T I O N = Any Change To Improve Our Natures

H E L P = Hope, Encouragement, Love, and Patience

P R I D E = Pretty Ridiculous Individual Directing Everything

Y A N A = You Are Not Alone.

D U E S = Desperately Using Everything but Sobriety

F E A R = Forgetting Everything's All Right

B A T H = Behavior, Attitude, Thinking, and Habits

T R U S T = Try Relying Upon Steps and Traditions

F I T = Faith, Intuition, and Trust

N U T S = Not Using The Steps

T H I N K = The Happiness I Never Knew

G I F T S = Getting It From The Steps

B E S T = Been Enjoying Sobriety Today?

S O B E R = Son Of a Basket, Everything's Real

[admin]

When something needs done in our groups, let's quit waiting for
"Somebody else to do it".

[admin]

Stick with the stickers, those are the ones who have stuck around and are enjoying sobriety.

[admin]

Sobriety doesn't change having good days and bad days, it's just that now we can have a bad day and remember that it'll change before we know it.

[admin]

Recovery means change.

[admin]

Resentment; recycled anger.

[admin]

Live in the now.

[admin]

Some may get to A.A. because they see the light but most get to A.A. because they feel the heat.

[admin]

May we never forget that in extending the hand of A.A. we survive.

[admin]

By saying we are alcoholics, we are constantly reminding ourselves that we are in recovery, not cured.

[admin]

Just because we are no longer newcomers and are sponsoring others doesn't mean we should never feel disturbed.

[admin]

If we do not take A.A.'s Twelve Steps seriously and in full how can we expect any results from them.

[admin]

Alcohol is a depressant rather than a stimulant.

[scabby]

Oscar Wilde: It is absurd to say people are good or bad, they are either interesting or tedious.
man I must have been very tedious when I was drinking . . .!

[admin]

Alcoholism has been labeled as a "family illness" in that each member of the family feels the impact of having an alcoholic parent or spouse.

[scabby]

there are as many days as nights and the one is just as long as the other in the years course even a happy life cannot be without its share of darkness and the word happy would lose its meaning if it were not balanced by sadness
Im not sure that one makes any sense! pheeww

[admin]

Phil, I heard my grandsponsor share in a meeting something to the effect of, "How would I know what happiness, joy, contentment, etc felt like if I had never felt sadness, anger, discontentment, etc."

[admin]

What a person shares in a meeting is not to be discussed outside the meeting.

[admin]

Alcohol-ISM: I, Self, Me // I Sponsor Myself // Internal Spiritual Malady (or Maladjustment)// Incredibly Short Memory // InSide Me // I Sabotage Myself.

[admin]

The Twelve Steps are a plan for living, not just for discussion.

[admin]

"If God can solve the age-old riddle of alcoholism, He can solve your problems too." pg. 116

[admin]

For the alcoholic, surrender is marked by the admission of being powerless over alcohol.

[admin]

To change our lives we must change our thinking.

[admin]

We helped others by passing on what we did, what we read, and what actions we took.

[mellotripp]

God gave man freewill, so obedience to him would reap the reward.

[admin]

The simplicity of our program never changes--what works is constant; trust in God, clean house, and work with others.

[admin]

If we can't figure out how to make amends, just turn it over to God, in time, there will be an answer, there will be a way.

[admin]

The monkey may be off our backs, but let us not forget, the circus had not left town.

[admin]

We can visit A.A. meetings for years, be a member of our Fellowship for years, but until we have a spiritual awakening, emotional sobriety will elude us.

[admin]

Diet, rest and play are an important part of staying sober.

[admin]

Please may we keep in mind: It is not what I like but what is best for the group.

[admin]

One of the main differences between an active alcoholic and a recovering alcoholic can be expressed as a matter of tense;, the active alcoholic tends to live in the future or in the past, the sober alcoholic strives to live in the present.

[admin]

We need power each day, because we get weary, but with A.A. as our structure and God as our source of strength, we can face life without taking a drink.

[admin]

A.A. history statement: God was the cure for our drunkenness.

[admin]

A drink will only make a situation worse, never ever better.

[admin]

A.A. gives meaning and purpose to the individual and a way to be of service to others.

[admin]

Anyone's relapse is an important learning experience for all.

[sioux]

I don't believe I've ever been able to save my ass and my face at the same time. I'm going for the ass.

[admin]

"My gratitude to A.A. grows deeper each day I am sober" pg. 420

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Our entire A.A. program rests upon the principle of mutual trust; we trust God, we trust A.A., and we trust each other.

[admin]

Permanent sobriety can be attained only by a most revolutionary change in our lives and outlook--by a spiritual awakening that can banish the desire to drink.

[admin]

Having a lot of knowledge of our Steps, A.A. and our Traditions is not really worth a darn if not put into practice.

[admin]

Without sobriety we have nothing.

[admin]

No alcoholic dies in vain, they carry a message to other alcoholics.

[sioux]

Both a drunk and an addict will steal your pocketbook; an alkie will pretend to help you find it.

[admin]

We may have very few material things, but we can be rich in terms of spiritual values, enjoying life.

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Rationalization and denial are part of the alcoholic's illness.

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A.A. has no fixed address, we take it with us wherever we go.

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The past is a place of reference, not a place of residency.

[admin]

Freedom comes from surrendering.

[mellotripp]

We judge ourselves by our intentions, others judge us by our actions.

[admin]

Alcoholism is a threefold illness; mental, physical and spiritual.

[admin]

The best time to begin working the A.A. program is right now.

[admin]

Recovery = work in progress.

[mellotripp]

We only have to change one thing - EVERYTHING

[admin]

Thank God for A.A.

[admin]

The most convincing message we can carry to other alcoholics is our own example of contented sobriety.

[admin]

It is never to late to start.

[Doraine]

It's never too late to start life over.

[admin]

You recover at your own rate,
not in your time,
In God's time.


Don't count time,
make time count.


TIME = Things I Must Earn


When I was using I walked 25 miles into the forest,
One day at a time....the 12 steps will lead me out.

[admin]

I need to be in a meeting for 1 1/2 hours
so I can learn to live the other 22 1/2 hours.

If you don't keep coming,
then your going to keep going.

Clean time does not equal recovery.

Please be patient,
You are not a finished product,
God is not through with you.

[admin]

Addiction is a disease of isolation and loneliness.

[admin]

The suffering of an alcoholic is not only the suffering of an individual but
of all those related to him, especially those in his immediate family.

[admin]

The insanity of alcoholism begins before the first drink.

[admin]

We must look inside to find our problem.

[rahiz]

What goes around comes around

[rahiz]

Fearful as reality is less fearful as the evasion of reality

[admin]

The 12 Steps and 12 Traditions
are like 24 wrenches to fit any size nut that
walks in through the doors of our program.
Mark Kostew

[admin]

For the newcomer: "Enjoy your ride on the pink cloud, but make sure you`ve got a parachute on, so that when the cloud dissipates, you can float to earth, not crash and burn".

"AA saved my life, and has given me life to live."

"Coffee maker is the best job in AA."

"I ain`t what I could be, ain`t what I should be, but I`m alot better than I used to be."

"The God in me recognizes the God in you."

"If you can help - help. If you can`t - don`t hurt."

[admin]

Heard At a meeting....

"It's not old behavior if I'm still doing it."

"If you're looking to have an image in AA, look around at the meetings you go to and take a look at whom you're trying to impress."

"An alcoholic is a person who wants to be held while isolating."

"A treatment center is where you go and pay $15,000 to find out that AA meetings are free."

"This is a 'One Day At A Time' program. If you're clean and sober today, you're tied for first place in AA."

"I often obsessively pursue feeling good.. no matter how bad it makes me feel."

"When I was new, I didn't think I had any obsessions until I started thinking about it. Then it was all I could think about."

"If you want to quit [drinking], then you are going to have to quit [drinking]."

"I would rather go through life sober, believing I am an alcoholic, than go through life drunk, trying to convince myself that I am not."

"Resentments are like stray cats: if you don't feed them, they'll go away."

"It is the great obsession of every Al-Anon, that someday he or she will learn to control and enjoy their drinker."

"I drank when I was happy. I drank when I was unhappy. Actually, I am a reason to drink."

"I can't do God's will my way."

"In order to change the way we feel, we need to change the way we act."

"The good news is you get your emotions back; the bad news is you get your emotions back."

"There is only one way to coast, and that is downhill."

"The difference between the problem drinker and the alcoholic is this: a)
when the alcohol is taken away from the problem drinker, the problem goes away. b) when the alcohol is taken away from the alcoholic, the problem begins.

Newcomer: "How do I know how many meetings I should attend each week?"
Old-timer: "Gradually cut back until you drink. Then you'll know."

"How come if alcohol kills millions of brain cells, it never killed the ones that made me want to drink?"

[admin]

AA = Altered Attitudes
AA = Attitude Adjustment
ABC = Acceptance, Belief, Change
ANONYMOUS = Actions Not Our Names Yield Maintenance Of Unity & Service
ACTION = Any Change Toward Improving One's Nature

BATH = Behavior, Attitude, Thinking, and Habits
BEST = Been Enjoying Sobriety Today?
BS = Before Sobriety
BUT = Being Unconvinced Totally

CARE = Comforting And Reassuring Each other
CALM = Can Anger Leave Me?
CHAOS = Can't Handle Another Overwhelming Situation
CHANGE = Choosing Honesty Allows New Growth Everyday
CRAP = Carry Resentments Against People

DEAD = Drinking Ends All Dreams

EDI not DIE Easy Does It not Does It Easy
EGO Easing God Out

FEEL = Feel, Experience, Express, Let go
FEAR = Forgetting Everything's All Right
FEAR = Fools Every Alcoholic Repeatedly
FEAR = Forever Escaping And Retreating
FEAR = Failure Expected And Received
FAITH = Finding Answers In The Heart
FAITH = Found Always In Trusting Him
FAITH = For An Instant Trust Him
FINE = Feeling Insecure, Numb and Empty
F I N E = Free, Independent, New and Energetic

GIFT = God Is Forever There
GIFTS = Getting It From The Steps
GRACE = Gently Releasing All Conscious Expectations
GOD = Give Others Dignity

HALT = Honestly, Actively, Lovingly, Tolerant
HELP = Hope, Encouragement, Love and Patience
HOPE = Happy Our Program Exists
HOPE = Hearing Other Peoples' Experience
HOPE = Heart Open; Please Enter
HOPE = Help Open People's Eyes
HOPE = Hang On, Pray Everyday
HEART = Healing, Enjoying, And Recovering, Together
HOW = Honest, Open-minded and Willing
HOW NOW = Honest Open-minded, Willing. No Other Way!

ISM = I, Self, Me
ISM = I Sponsor Myself

KISS = Keep It Simple, Surrender

LET GO Leave Everything To God, Okay?

NEW = Nothing Else Worked

PEACE = Providing Experienced Attitude Changes Every day
PEACE = Praying Energetically Always Creates Ease
PUT = Patience, Understanding, Tolerance
PROGRAM = People Relying On God Relay A Message
PUSH = Pray Until Something Happens
PACE = Positive Attitudes Change Everything

RACING = Real Alcoholics Centered Inward Needing God

STEPS = Solutions To Every Problem in Sobriety
SWAT = Surrender, Willingness, Acceptance, Trust
SOBER = Simply Observe Bill's Exemplary Recovery
SIT = Stay In Today
SOBRIETY = Stay Off Booze Recovery Is Everything To You
S P O N S O R = Sober Person Offering Newcomer Support Of Recovery

THINK = The Happiness I Never Knew
TRUST = Teaching Recovery Using Steps and Traditions
TRUST = Try Relying Upon The Steps and Traditions
TEAM = Together Everyone Achieves More
TIME = Things I Must Earn

WHO = Willingness, Honesty, Openmindedness
WHO ME? = Willingness,Honesty, Open-mindedness,Must Exist
WISDOM = When Into Self, Discover Our Motives
WILLING = When I Live Life, I Need God

YET = You'll End There
YANA = You Are Not Alone

Know God; Know peace. No God; No peace.

[admin]

H O P E = Heart Open; Please Enter.

[admin]

If we hear something in a meeting we don't like, maybe we should take a real close look at it to see why.

[admin]

A smile in a meeting may be just the message a newcomer may need.

[admin]

If you think staying away from the first one is difficult, try staying away from the second one.

[admin]

Ain't it wonderful to be sober?

[admin]

How many of us came to A.A. because we felt the heat but stayed to experience the warmth.

[admin]

Anyone can stay sober at an A.A. meeting -- it's the time in between that counts.

[admin]

A.A. is for those who want it, not need it.

[admin]

Alcoholics are not bad people trying to be good but sick people who need to get well.

[admin]

13 stepping = Step 1 + Step 12 (or my live is unmanageable and I want to share it with you.

[admin]

All of A.A.'s suggestions are free, the ones we don't take are the ones we wind up paying for.

[admin]

If we want to be sober tomorrow we need to stay away from the first drink today.

[admin]

Contact another member before taking a drink, not after.

[admin]

Having an advisor is not the same as having a sponsor.

[admin]

No one in a A.A. meeting is offended by a lack of profanity.

[admin]

There are no big shots in A.A., nor are there little shots.

[admin]

From coffeemaker to delegate there is something for everyone in A.A.
service, and service work is as essential to recovery as it is to A.A.'s longevity.

[admin]

God has given us this day to use as we wish, A.A. shows us how to live it without a drink.

[admin]

Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again expecting different results

[admin]

It's never too early for the Steps, because the point is to try and practice them to the best of our ability, not to master them when we think we are well enough to truly understand them all.

[admin]

Listen to the similarities, not the differences.

[admin]

Nobody gets to A.A. by mistake.

[admin]

Recovery gives us hope for brighter days.

[admin]

When we surrender we don't weaken ourselves, on the contrary, we strengthen ourselves.

[admin]

The sun can't shine every day but if we can stand the rain, we'll see the sun again, if we stay sober.

[admin]

We go to A.A. to live our lives, not live our lives to go to A.A.

[admin]

When we stop changing, we stop growing.

[admin]

Alcoholics are known to be "fast forgetters" due to our obsession.

[admin]

Alcoholics do not seek normal alcohol intoxication, they seek anesthetic oblivion.

[admin]

Alcoholics not in recovery are very hungry and don't realize it; they are starving for spiritually.

[admin]

Amends = change.

:325:

[admin]

Anonymity in A.A. makes us all equal.

[admin]

Any alcoholic capable of honestly facing his problems in the light of our experiences can recover, provided he does not close his mind to all spiritual concepts.

[admin]

Because of God's love for us, no one is beyond recovery.

[admin]

Being physically dry and mentally drunk is dangerous territory for alcoholics.

[admin]

Sponsoring requires patience.

[admin]

The A.A. slogans are shorthand for our 12 Steps.

[admin]

We did a lot of exercising when we were drinking: hitting the bottle, beating ourselves up, bending the rules, stretching the truth, jogging our memory, running into trouble, jumping to conclusions, stepping on toes, climbing the walls, dodging responsibility, pushing our luck, pulling the wool over people's eyes, walking over people, carrying a grudge, throwing fits, and picking up the pieces.

[admin]

We must work the program for ourselves alone--not for our wife, children, friends, or for our job.

[admin]

Every new day is a new opportunity to live as we should.

[admin]

Anger, resentments, jealousy, envy, self-pity, hurt pride--all led to the bottle.

[admin]

A.A. is a place where we share.

[admin]

I can have complete serenity at this very moment...if I live in denial.

We came to AA to save our ass, and found out our soul was attached .

Hope
Unity
Gratitude
Serenity
not drugs

HOPE is
Helping
Other
People
Everyday!

Just For Today...
You have to be willing to get rid of the life you have planned, so to have the life that is waiting for you.

No matter what - you don't have to pick up.

Until the pain gets strong enough, there will be no change.

It came to pass; it didn't come to stay.

Humble people don't think less of themselves, they just think of themselves less.

Resentments are like peeing your pants--they don't affect anyone quite as much as you!

May your lost dreams of yesterday become the reality of your tomorrow!

Hit your knees.....
not the bottle!"

I can't fix anyone but me,
and that's a full time job!"

Recovery is an inside job

Just for today.

Think Think Think

First things first.

How important is it?

Keep an open mind.

Keep it simple.

Live and let live.

Have an attitude of gratitude.

Mind your own business.

Progress not perfection.

Change the things I can.

One day at a time.

Wonderful things happen
One day at a time

Listen and learn.

Let go and let God

Easy does it.

This too shall pass.

Great expectations can lead to great disappointments.

Al-Anon doesn't give us the choice between feeling good or feeling bad- it gives us the choice between feeling and not feeling.

Learn from the mistakes of others. You can't live long enough to make them all yourself

If it is to be, it is up to me.

If you think handling everything is too much, try letting go.

Fear is a darkroom where negatives are developed.

Take what you like and leave the rest.

Measure yourself by your best moments not your worst.

Remember yesterday, dream of tomorrow, but live for today.

The longest journey starts with the first step.

Recovery is a process, not an event-it takes time.

Recovery is an inside job.

You must be present to win.

Each new day offers a new opportunity

One hour at a time..
One day at a time..
One step at a time

Wonderful things happen..
One Day At A Time

A.A. Slogans

"It's alcohol-ISM, not alcohol-WASM !"

"A.A. also stands for.
"Attitude Adjustment."

"I can only carry the message, I can"t carry the drunk!"

Seven missed meetings makes one weak.

Happiness is not getting what you want, it is wanting what you get.

Self-will can get me what I want right now,
God's will can provide what I need for eternity.

The only difference between stumbling blocks and stepping stones is how we use them.

Being Recovered from Alcoholism is like getting a Gunshot wound. You can
recover from it but it does NOT make you bulletproof. You can recover from
alcoholism but it does not make you Immune from Alcohol.

HALT: Don't get
too Hungry,
too Angry,
too Lonely, or
too Tired!!

It's never to late to be what you might have been. George Eliot (12 life in recovery magazine).

There ain't no big deals!

If you do what you always did, you will get what you always got.
or
If you keep doin' what your doin'
you'll keep gettin' what your gettin'

No matter how far off the path we've stumbled, we're no more than 12 steps away from the solution!

Thoughts are not things and feelings are not facts; they only have the power we give them.

Looking for God
is like a fish looking for water.

Listen to the message..
not the messenger

Feel, Deal and the Heal
(Feel it, Deal with it and then Heal from it)

Hope is knowing the good in us will overcome the bad.

Happy, Joyous & Free

God speaks to us all a little differently, hoping we'll tell each other.

Even if I'm on the right track, if I don't move I'll get run over

Don't give up five minutes before the miracle

Do not be discouraged.

There is no situation too difficult to be bettered and No unhappiness to great to be lessened.

Don't take everything personally.

When you feel left out, reach out.

Have patience with all things, but first with yourself.

Serenity comes when I stop expecting and start accepting.

Today is the tomorrow that I worried about yesterday.

You cannot deal with the alligators until you drain the swamp and get out of the mud.

Glance at the past, but don't stare at it.

You can't change yesterday, but you can ruin today by worrying about tomorrow.

Wherever you go- there you are.

To live or just exist- the choice is yours.

Focus on the program-not the problem.

One needn't make a crisis out of an incident.

When you're flat on your back, there's no way to look but up.

As you go through life, make this your goal- watch the donut not the hole.

No is a complete sentence.

It's hard to be hateful when you're being grateful.

Fear is not a shortcoming- it's an emotion. Our reaction to it can be the shortcoming.

It helps to learn the difference between being responsible to others and being responsible for others.

Ulcers are what you get from mountain climbing on mole hills.

If you find yourself in a rut, stop digging.

Never walk unescorted through your own mind- it can be a dangerous neighborhood.

The way to get anywhere is to start from where you are.

If you want serenity, put your Higher Power between you & your problem.

Expectations are premeditated resentments.

[allaflutter]

Wow!!! So inspiring

thank you

[allaflutter]

Burn the idea into the consciousness of every man that he can get well regarless of anyone." ........ or anything

[admin]

Are we carrying the message or the mess?

[allaflutter]

Quality...not quantity

[admin]

"Part of what works for me is to remember.....
I am not the only person who has ever gone through any of this. Therefore I am not alone."—302oiler

[admin]

# We are as unique as snowflakes, and as common as blades of grass.

# AA richens the broth in the soup of life.

# A Slip is when Sobriety Loses It's Priority.

# There is no elevator to serenity, you must use the steps.

# "Alcohol was the lubricant that minimized the friction in all my relationships." (From Joe's story in the book The Courage to Change.)

# One is too many, and a thousand not enough. (Thanks to George W. for reminding me of this one.)

[admin]

Are we so impressed with how long someone has been sober that it over rides their quality of sobriety?



On his twentieth A.A. anniversary, an old-timer turns to his sponsor, gloating, "Ha! And you thought I'd never make it!" The sponsor, with thirty years of sobriety, coolly answers, "Who says you've made it?"

[admin]

As our knowledge of God grows, so will our strength of recovery.

[admin]

Are we walking towards a drink or away from one?

[admin]

Be with sober alcoholics and become and stay sober, be with drinkers and, well, you figure it out.

[admin]

Before we say, "We can't", say, "We'll try".

[admin]

A fellow said he came to A.A. because of back problems-to get his wife off his back, to get his boss of his back, to get his creditors off his back, etc.

[admin]

By continuing with our personal inventories, we allow the seeds of recovery to take deeper root.

[admin]

By standing together, we form a shield against a relapse.

[allaflutter]

Today's Gift

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Love cures people--both the ones who give it and the ones who receive it.
--Karl Menninger

Receiving a loving hug from a parent or perhaps a smile from a friend or even a stranger gives us a special feeling inside. We know we are important to others when they show us their love through attention. And we sometimes forget that we matter to others. Family members and friends feel good in the same way when we show them our love. Everyone needs to be loved.

How can we show our love? Must it be through a hug? Doing a favor for someone is loving. Helping around the house or the yard is loving, particularly when we've volunteered our help. Giving an unexpected gift to a friend is a way of showing love. Showing others we care, even when they are angry, is perhaps the nicest of all expressions of love.

What new way can I show someone I care today?

From Today's Gift: Daily Meditations for Families ©1985, 1991 by Hazelden Foundation

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If you do what we do you'll get what we got....
If you do what you did, you'll get what you got.....

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I have to get into action. Sitting in an AA meeting doesn't make me
sober anymore than sitting in a garage makes me a car.

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A friend knows the song in your heart and responds with beautiful harmony.

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HJF = Happy, Joyous, and FREE!

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Before I moved here..I had the honor and privieldge to witness a gentleman getting his 45 year medallion.. When asked how he did it..His response was quite simply:

"I didn't drink and I didn't die."

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God reliance ...not people reliance...

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The steps did for me the very thing I kept hoping alcohol would do for
me --- they gave me the peace and serenity I had been looking for in a
bottle.

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God is in the small stuff...and it all matters

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You Raise Me Up"
~Josh Groban~

When I am down and, oh my soul, so weary;
When troubles come and my heart burdened be;
Then, I am still and wait here in the silence,
Until you come and sit awhile with me.

You raise me up, so I can stand on mountains;
You raise me up, to walk on stormy seas;
I am strong, when I am on your shoulders;
You raise me up... To more than I can be.

You raise me up, so I can stand on mountains;
You raise me up, to walk on stormy seas;
I am strong, when I am on your shoulders;
You raise me up... To more than I can be.

You raise me up, so I can stand on mountains;
You raise me up, to walk on stormy seas;
I am strong, when I am on your shoulders;
You raise me up... To more than I can be.

You raise me up, so I can stand on mountains;
You raise me up, to walk on stormy seas;
I am strong, when I am on your shoulders;
You raise me up... To more than I can be.

You raise me up... To more than I can be.

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A wonderful poem Audrey Hepburn wrote when asked to share her 'beauty tips.'

It was read at her funeral years later.

For attractive lips, speak words of kindness...

For lovely eyes, seek out the good in people.

For a slim figure, share your food with the hungry.

For beautiful hair, let a child run his/her fingers through it once a day.

For poise, walk with the knowledge that you never walk alone...

People, even more than things, have to be restored, renewed, revived, reclaimed, and redeemed; never throw out anyone.

Remember, if you ever need a helping hand, you will find one at the end of each of your arms.

As you grow older, you will discover that you have two hands; one for helping yourself, and the other for helping others.

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PUSH

Pray
Until
Something
Happens

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By sharing the program with others we reinforce how important it is to us.

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Contented sobriety is contingent on spiritual fitness.

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En route to her first sober vacation, a women newcomer confessed her apprehension to her husband. The idea of being on a plane without a drink was unthinkable. She came through the flight without incident and was absolutely floored to be met with a large banner in the airport saying. "A.A. Welcomes You." She grabbed her husband's arm and pointed to the sign, being concerned about her anonymity being broken. He looked at it for a moment, turned to her, and said quietly, "Dear, it stands for American Airlines."

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Do our actions back up our words?

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Do yourself a big favor, STUDY the Big Book.

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Don't be afraid to ask others for help.

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Ever wonder why as soon as we begin to learn about the Program we want to make it complicated?

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Even when we cannot see a way out, we must never give up hope.

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Every alcoholic will eventually quit drinking, but it's better to do it when we're still alive.

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Every part of our lives should be important to us: our families and friends as well as our recovery and careers.

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First things first: God, us, our families, ???.

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Freedom from alcohol results in many other freedoms.

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Surrwender has truly meant being free. A freedome I never knew before recovery

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Material well being must be after spiritual progress..[Big Book pg 127]

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Many of the slogans and sayings around the rooms may sound trite but it si these sayings and slogans that would leap to mid in early recovery and remind me to change negative thinking and old behaviors.

I miss seeing the 5 slogans that were such an integral part of my early recovery. The meetings here do not use them.. Buit I still recall the day someone pointed out to me the underlying message of them all "Think First Of God But Live Easy"


The one that threw me the most was "THINK THINK THINK". My thinker was broken...so why tell me to Think, Think, Think? Today I have a little better undestanding of that.

I sure did not like the one "By The grace of God" at first..Over the years tho it has become a mantra. For it is only by the Grace of God that I am here... and for that I am truly eternally grateful

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The quickest way to get on your feet ............. is to .........
Get on your knees.

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"There are no loosers in A.A., just slow winners."

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"Definition of forgiveness: Giving up hope for a better past."

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"Any problem bleses us when we learn the lesson it teaches."