Did i lapse

[asunone]

I put myself in a bad place this weekend,i was around peo. that smoke weed(not my drug of choice).I felt alittle different when i left,did i lapse?

[DianaMarie7968]

I put myself in a bad place this weekend,i was around peo. that smoke weed(not my drug of choice).I felt alittle different when i left,did i lapsif you smoked it you relapsed bottom line! but ifyou didn't then My opionion would be no you didnt relapse, although my Suggetstion to you is when ya get clean ya gotta get rid of "people" "places" & "Things" Best of luck to you....

[admin]

Talking about this with your sponsor would be a great idea. It is advised that we change our playmates and playpens. If I were you I would do that. I've heard said if you hang around a barber shop long enough you will get a haircut. Keep coming back and sharing with us. We are here for you. :42:

[janbear]

I with DianaMarie and Tammy on this. You can make new friends in the fellowship

[kaistevens]

You, with help from your sponsor, ultimately have to decide whether or not you relapsed, but I would suggest that maybe you handled an old, unhealthy situation in a new, healthy way. Maybe you were given a chance to see our disease from the other side.

I choose to try to surround myself with healthy people, so that should my world come crashing down on me, I am already in a place of safety and support.

Your might have been blessed with a valuable lesson.

Love ya later

Kai

[dalin]

I know that if you use...we lose...

Build a relationship with your sponsor,and your clean network.

I am in N.A.
So for me,using a narcotic or drinking is a relapse.
Build a good relationship with your sponsor,as well as others with
cleantime(a year or more) will change how you feel.
That is what worked for me.
Keep coming...I need you.