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02-07-2009, 01:42 AM
12 Commandments of Loving Yourself
by Louise Hay
1. Stop All Criticism. Criticism never changes a thing. Refuse to criticize yourself. Accept yourself exactly as you are. Everybody changes. When you criticize yourself, your changes are negative. When you approve of yourself, your changes are positive.
2. Forgive Yourself. Let the past go. You did the best you could at the time with the understanding, awareness, and knowledge you had. Now you are growing and changing and you will live your life differently.
3. Don't Scare Yourself. Stop terrorizing yourself with your thoughts. It's a dreadful way to live. Find a mental image that gives you pleasure and immediately switch your scary thought to a pleasure thought.
4. Be Gentle and Kind and Patient. Be gentle with yourself. Be kind to yourself. Be patient with yourself as you learn the new ways of thinking. Treat yourself as you would someone you really loved.
5. Be Kind to Your Mind. Self-hatred is hating your thoughts. Don't hate yourself for having the thoughts. Gently change your thoughts.
6. Praise Yourself. Criticism breaks down the inner spirit. Praise builds your spirit. Praise yourself as much as you possibly can. Tell yourself how well you're doing.
7. Support Yourself. Find ways to support yourself. Reach out to friends and allow them to help you. It is a strength to ask for help when you need it.
8. Be Loving to Your Negatives. Acknowledge that you created them to fulfill a need. Now you are finding new, positive ways to fulfill those needs. So lovingly release the old negative patterns.
9. Take Care of Your Body. Learn about nutrition. What kind of fuel does you body need to have optimum energy and vitality? Learn about exercise. What kind of exercise do you enjoy? Cherish and revere the temple you live in.
10. Mirror Work. Look into your eyes often. Express this growing sense of love you have for yourself. Forgive yourself while looking into the mirror.
11. Love Yourself--Do It Now. Don't wait until you get well, or lose the weight, or get the new job, or find the new relationship. Begin now--and do the best you can.
12. Have Fun. Remember the things that gave you joy as a child. Incorporate them into your life now. Find a way to have fun with everything you do. Let yourself express the joy of living. Smile. Laugh. Rejoice. The Universe rejoices with you!
by Louise Hay
1. Stop All Criticism. Criticism never changes a thing. Refuse to criticize yourself. Accept yourself exactly as you are. Everybody changes. When you criticize yourself, your changes are negative. When you approve of yourself, your changes are positive.
2. Forgive Yourself. Let the past go. You did the best you could at the time with the understanding, awareness, and knowledge you had. Now you are growing and changing and you will live your life differently.
3. Don't Scare Yourself. Stop terrorizing yourself with your thoughts. It's a dreadful way to live. Find a mental image that gives you pleasure and immediately switch your scary thought to a pleasure thought.
4. Be Gentle and Kind and Patient. Be gentle with yourself. Be kind to yourself. Be patient with yourself as you learn the new ways of thinking. Treat yourself as you would someone you really loved.
5. Be Kind to Your Mind. Self-hatred is hating your thoughts. Don't hate yourself for having the thoughts. Gently change your thoughts.
6. Praise Yourself. Criticism breaks down the inner spirit. Praise builds your spirit. Praise yourself as much as you possibly can. Tell yourself how well you're doing.
7. Support Yourself. Find ways to support yourself. Reach out to friends and allow them to help you. It is a strength to ask for help when you need it.
8. Be Loving to Your Negatives. Acknowledge that you created them to fulfill a need. Now you are finding new, positive ways to fulfill those needs. So lovingly release the old negative patterns.
9. Take Care of Your Body. Learn about nutrition. What kind of fuel does you body need to have optimum energy and vitality? Learn about exercise. What kind of exercise do you enjoy? Cherish and revere the temple you live in.
10. Mirror Work. Look into your eyes often. Express this growing sense of love you have for yourself. Forgive yourself while looking into the mirror.
11. Love Yourself--Do It Now. Don't wait until you get well, or lose the weight, or get the new job, or find the new relationship. Begin now--and do the best you can.
12. Have Fun. Remember the things that gave you joy as a child. Incorporate them into your life now. Find a way to have fun with everything you do. Let yourself express the joy of living. Smile. Laugh. Rejoice. The Universe rejoices with you!