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onzeaout
09-29-2009, 07:18 PM
Dear Mike,
A fews years ago I went into the rooms. I had two base groups, I tried all the suggestions. 1 meeting a day, sharing, chores in tne rooms, ministries, stayed after to chat with the members, listened........ for 8 months, no matter what I did I could not get any one to sponsor me. Either they said that I wasn't trying or they blamed it on being alcoholics(?)
I know I should be going to meetings and I found quite a few in my area. I am so anxious that I will be rejected once again. How bad is it that I was rejected by a group whose sobriety is helped by helping others.
I truly tried, it seemed that they held me in contmept or something.
truly troubled
BIG AL
09-29-2009, 11:19 PM
Try again man.I did the same thing but one thing you have to remeber its not abot them its about you.Maybe god put you i a place in sobriety were you can be of some help when others fail.Get sober make adifference for the folks like you who may get rejected.You learned a valublt lesson on how not to treat people that can be used for you and others.Thats your meeting dont let folks run you off.Find one with winners bro becouse you are a winner.% days is a long time to stay sober long time.
onzeaout
09-30-2009, 06:27 AM
Try again man.I did the same thing but one thing you have to remeber its not abot them its about you.Maybe god put you i a place in sobriety were you can be of some help when others fail.Get sober make adifference for the folks like you who may get rejected.You learned a valublt lesson on how not to treat people that can be used for you and others.Thats your meeting dont let folks run you off.Find one with winners bro becouse you are a winner.% days is a long time to stay sober long time.
Thanks! I am getting ready for the morning meeting. If at first you don't succeed.............
onzeaout
09-30-2009, 09:07 AM
Try again man.I did the same thing but one thing you have to remeber its not abot them its about you.Maybe god put you i a place in sobriety were you can be of some help when others fail.Get sober make adifference for the folks like you who may get rejected.You learned a valublt lesson on how not to treat people that can be used for you and others.Thats your meeting dont let folks run you off.Find one with winners bro becouse you are a winner.% days is a long time to stay sober long time.
Big Al,
It tool all my strength but I got to my first meeting this morning. It was a celebration meeting and it was good. I sat on the verge of tears the whole time but I made it. At the end one of the celebrants approached me and gave me her number with the request to call her before 6p this evening. I will call her.
One Day At A Time:1:
Thank you sharing and having someone respond helped me get through my anxiety.
zoomie
09-30-2009, 09:08 AM
(((((((((((Huggies)))))))))) I'm glad you got the number, now alls you have to do is call it!
alcoholrehabcoach
09-30-2009, 09:12 AM
Just saw this post. Nice job, Al
And Onzeaout, congratulations on your positive momentum. Keep up the good work and remember that "Nothing has any meaning except the meaning you choose to give it."
Mike
onzeaout
10-01-2009, 06:29 AM
(((((((((((Huggies)))))))))) I'm glad you got the number, now alls you have to do is call it!
I called, she will be my temporary sponsor and I will call her today. It's a start.
A Great Big Thanks
zoomie
10-01-2009, 08:38 AM
Wow what a great start, Hurray!!!!
Deeters
10-01-2009, 04:12 PM
Here's a webinar Mike H allowed us to review for free talking about choices. I hope you will get strength to stay on your road to sobriety by listening to it..
http://alcoholrehabandtreatment.com/alcoholism-links-resources/
12 of 'em
10-01-2009, 04:17 PM
Hey Onzeaout, your an inspiration! Great work.
janbear
10-01-2009, 05:52 PM
yes, definitely an inspiration onzeaout:1: You show courage :85:, a very positive move. Keep going to meetings, and keep us posted too.
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