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[Honey Barbara]

I was so happy to find this site. I have picked up some valuable information and everyone has been very supportive and gentle with each other. I am feeling a bit strange about the amount of religion and I am wondering if this is a predominantly Christain site.
I totally accept individual paths and respect belief but it is not my experience, just wondering if I am in the right place.
Day 6 - stronger cravings today but I recognise them and keep busy - I have immersed myself in a sculpture project which is great fun. I would normally be reading and drinking wine.
Hope I don't offend anyone i just wanted to know the score.
Peace
Honey Barbara

[zoomie]

This site started off as a regular recovery web site then it has turned Christain based. It's OK though because there are all kinds of people that come here. Some are Christains and some are not. I'm not sure what I am either,but this site is friendly unlike some sites. Some people talk about God some do not, just like any other web site. As they say in meetings, take what you need and leave the rest. Thats what I do any way.

[bluidkiti]

Hi Honey Barbara, :67: Actually this website is for all people of all beliefs or no beliefs whether you are in recovery or not or seeking recovery or just curious and for family and friends of loved ones. It's for all people from all walks of life. All are welcome.

Feel free to ask any more questions that you may have or for any help you may need.

Please keep coming and sharing with us. We are all here for you and each other to offer help and support and fellowship. :42:

[janbear]

There is room for everyone.

[sioux]

I had no idea this was a Christian based website. I have been coing here for a few years I think, so there ya go. Take what you need, leave the rest for another time, and welcome. I am a heathen with a concept of a power greater than myself, and it has worked, and worked really well for a long time.

[DaveH]

I too never thought of this as a Christian based site.....and I consider myself to be one. I have found that the focus is on recovery and most posts are related to our collective need for recovery, not our definition of our Higher Power. Don't have to agree nor share anyone's definition, but I will respect them. And I have always looked forward to hearing EVERYONE'S experience, strength, and hope.
Regards,
DaveH

[BIG AL]

I label myself a christian.I do however believe in the right to believe or not to believe.I think this is about staying sober more than anything at all.We are all in the same boat.Doing this thing one day at a time.I am glad you are here.We dont have to agree.If I can help anyway I will.Some days however I do not feel so spiritual or even act like it.Whatever a christian is suppose to act like.

[Honey Barbara]

Thanks Guys. Cool.
I have no problem with spirtuality or a higher power, just a few problems with organised religion. I have decided that my God or power in 12 steps will be the line from the Dylan Thomas poem
"The force that through the green fuse drives the flower" - For you it may be God for me a life force - same thing, different names.
I was a day ahead of myself yesterday - i said day 6 - but actaully this is day 6 -
I have been feeling great and excersing a lot - especially when I want a drink -so right now I am feeling so exhausted and flat. I should tell ya'll i live for 6 months in a resort which my husband owns - The reason I am sharing this with you is that I am giving up with a fully stocked bar in my lounge room. Yikes.
I am determined to do it - and told my darling husband that I would love him to drink a few glasses of wine at lunch time - one of our weekend rituals. I think he felt bad, but I was really pleased to know that I could still enjoy a lunch that we had cooked together and chat while he sipped wine and I sipped mineral water.
I really wanted one, and I have to admit lunch wasn't quite as chatty or fun as it usually is - on the other hand - I in my own true sense am already a stronger better person -
So one week tomorrow - So far the thing I love more than anything else - is a great nights sleep. i am such a great sleeper without the demon drop.
Thanks again for making me all so welcome. I am delighted to be on my journey - one day at a time - but sober always
Fingers crossed
Honey Barbaraxx

[janbear]

Congratulations Honey Barbara on your sobriety. :85: Keep coming back.

[zoomie]

Six days is wonderful!!!