Albert and Betty
09-10-2006, 02:31 PM
Hi everyone I am here to pour my heart aches on to you all.I thought everything was going to go so good this time around as some of you all read my post before..I stood by my husband while he was (still is) in the ARC (recovery place) for the first month he told me of everything that we were going to do and how things were going to change for us..The second month kinda changed He was able to go out at 6am and be back at 6:45 pm and 6am -10 pm sundays ..well lil by lil he would not come home to see me and i would ask him why he said cause he had to work ok so i understand that ..but last Sunday he didnt come home or call from 6am-10pm..so thats been on my mind..why, where is he, with who is he ..ANyways this Thursday my son came over to tell me something about that he heard about my husband...He said that my husband was touching someone before he went to the arc and that he cant tell me who cause she dont even know that he knows and that her b/f wants to kick my husbands *** so here i am now thinking about that ..I told my husband what my son said and he said he would never do a thing like that ever and for me to find out who is saying this about him.. then i call my sister and she said i know who she is and i dont want to get involved...but finally she told me it was her daughter she is 28 and that she said when she spend the night he was touching her while she was asleep ...and i told her to tell her to call me .....then my husband is asking me if she called i said no then all this is on my mind and i started to need a cigaette so i failed on that went back to hacyily smoking ..so i told my husbadn if my niece tells me it happened i can never be with him again ..my husband left Thursday and since has not called me or came over my niece has not called me either to tell me if this is true...my son just came and told me that and never came back...one thing to know is that ..my son hates me for being with my husband because i stood by him through thick and thin and has known to lie about anything for me to leave my husband...since then I have not heard from my husband my niece or my son ...now my uncle came out saying that my husband was going to his house to try to stay there with some girl before my husband was at the ARC...but yet my uncle has not told me anything my son said he dont believe i didnt know this cause everyone is talking about it ...so i talked to my other son and he said he didnt know anything about that or heard about any of that ...what do i do? I need someones opinion or help cause i am just sitting home depressed and feel worthless...please answer any feed back will help me thanks for reading