TIPS FOR REDUCING STRESS IN YOUR LIFE

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Posted: Thu Dec 15, 2005 2:27 pm Post subject: TIPS FOR REDUCING STRESS IN YOUR LIFE


TIPS FOR REDUCING STRESS IN YOUR LIFE
by Mary Calvagna, MS

Stress-we've all felt it at one time or another. But many people
feel stress often; some even feel it as a part of their daily
lives. Stress has been implicated as a possible cause of-or
at least exacerbating some of the symptoms of-numerous
conditions, including heart disease, stroke, immune disorders,
gastrointestinal problems like irritable bowel syndrome and
inflammatory bowel disease, eating problems, diabetes, sleep
disturbances, and sexual reproduction dysfunction. Learning
to reduce your stress levels can help you live happier,
healthier, and maybe even longer.

The National Mental Health Association offers the following
tips for reducing or controlling stress:

Be realistic. Don't take on everything; learn to say no. Set
realistic goals for yourself. If you are feeling overwhelmed,
try eliminating an activity that is not absolutely necessary.
Ask yourself, "What really needs to be done? Is the deadline
realistic?" No one is perfect, so do not expect perfection from
yourself or others. And ask for help if you need it.

Meditate. It only takes about 10-20 minutes to get a benefit
from meditating. These few moments of quiet reflection may
bring relief from stress as well as increase your tolerance to it.
And it is simple to do: sit quietly, listen to peaceful music,
relax, and try and think of pleasant things or think of nothing.

Visualize. Take a moment to picture how you can manage a
stressful situation more calmly and successfully. This can
work with just about anything, whether it is an important
presentation at work or moving to a new place or taking an
exam. A visual rehearsal can boost self-confidence and help
you have a more positive attitude toward a difficult task.

Take one thing at a time. When you start to feel overwhelmed,
try taking one task at a time. Make a list of things you need to
do. Put the most urgent task at the top. Once you have
accomplished it, cross it off and move on to the next one. The
positive feeling of crossing things off can help keep you
motivated.

Exercise. Regular exercise is a great way to reduce stress, and
it benefits the body as well as the mind. Just 20-30 minutes
of physical activity a day can do the trick.

Get involved in hobbies. Take a break from the stressors of
life and do something you really enjoy. Try gardening,
painting, or reading. Schedule time to indulge your interests.

Practice a healthful lifestyle. Eating healthfully will make a
difference. Avoiding things like smoking, excessive alcohol,
and caffeine will help as well. Make sure you get adequate rest
and exercise, and that you balance work and play.

Share your feelings. Talking about things can help you feel
better. A conversation with someone can help you relax. And
listening to someone else can take the focus off of yourself-
something we all need to do every now and then. Stay in
touch with your family and friends; don't try to cope alone.

Give in occasionally. You don't always have to be right. Be
flexible. Be willing to compromise. If you do, others may
meet you halfway. If you know you are right, stand your
ground. But be calm and rational. And listen and make
allowances for other's opinions.

Go easy with criticism. When you expect too much from
yourself or others, you may end up feeling frustrated, let down,
and disappointed. Remember that each person is unique and
everyone, including yourself, has shortcomings. But each
person also has many beautiful qualities to share with the
world.

Resources:

National Institute of Mental Health
http://www.nimh.nih.gov/

National Mental Health Association
http://www.nmha.org/

Source
Stress-coping with everyday problems. National Mental Health
Association website. Available at:
http://www.nmha.org/infoctr/factsheets/41.cfm.


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