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Old 08-28-2008, 10:54 PM   #1
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Buying Joy's House on Thursday?

We are suppose to close on Joys House next Thursday;
A sober house for women in my daughters memory I have been trying to open.
Its happening,
And its scary.
What if enough women dont come?
What if I am stuck with a $280,000 mortgage that I cant pay?
Or worse, my dad is stuck with the mortgage hes co-signing?
And I tell myself;
Self, Rely on God.
And it calms me. Because I know if it isnt His will,
It wouldnt happen.
And if it is, then theres nothing to worry about.
It almost didnt happen.
My dad was set to cosign the loan (which is a miracle in itself!),
When a business problem came up & the bank said it couldnt approve the loan;
Because they are so tight they squeak when they walk now on home loans,
After being so loose with home loans that were in a housing crisis like none other.
So when he told me that, I started scrambling to come up with a way to get the loan.
Not much luck there.
Then my dad called me yesterday to tell me he was going to pay for the house himself with a home equity loan and also taking some from his business.
And we will try to refinance it again in a few months so my name will be on the mortgage;
To help me re-establish my credit.
My dad is going to pay for a $280,000 house out of his pocket to help me open Joys House.
This man who wouldnt let me in his clubs 2 years ago.
How unbelievably cool is that?
Is he?
Is recovery?
Is God?
I talked with SP, my partner in JOURNEY (SP is our nickname for him Silent Partner!) & I am going to sell him 5% of my share of the magazine,
So we will now be 50/50 partners,
And I have some money to nicely furnish & set up Joys House;
Including a beach sand volley Ball court & BBQ area (with 9/10 of an acre theres room)!
2 1/2 years ago I was a night tech at a detox center after finally giving up, getting a sponsor & doing the steps.
The year before that I played tournament poker for a year.
The 8 years before that I ran a night club in Miami Beach.
The 2 years before that I DJs at that same club.
The 10 years before that I was in a maximum security prison.
Recovery is incredible,
And the promises are true;
If we are painstaking about this phase of our development, we will be amazed before we are halfway through.

Below is the text we are working on for the ad we will be putting in Journey,
And in the clubhouses around here.
It will look so much better when Joel, my art director, gets done with it.
If anyone has any ideas on what it should say, please let me know
I can use all the help I can get.
peace


Comity: A state of mutual harmony, friendship & respect between people.

Joys House is a beautiful, upscale 4 bedroom/3 bathroom home dedicated to bridging the gap from early recovery to independent living. Located on 9/10 of an acre in the heart of North Miami , Joys House is limited to only 9 women for your comfort. We strive to achieve a close, family feeling where a small, intimate group of women can be there for one another. An atmosphere of mutual support and accountability allow an opportunity for the healing process to begin.
Our house is based on 12-step principles & Joys House is located near 5 different "12 step meeting rooms". Attending a 12 step meeting daily is required in the first 3 months (90 meetings in 90 days) . Transitions, Holistics & The Village are among the treatment centers conveniently located near Joy's House; a plus for women still attending outpatient therapy.
Amenities include:
Wireless internet
House Computer
Big screen TV
Comcast Cable Service w/all premium channels
House Phone w/ free Long Distance
Large, comfortable rooms
Washer and Dryer
Beach Sand Volleyball Court
BBQ Area
Acupuncture, Massage & Tai Chi available.

Joys House
The Joy is in the Journey

Washer and Dryer
Beach Sand Volleyball Court
BBQ Area
Acupuncture, Massage & Tai Chi available.

Joys House
The Joy is in the Journey
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Old 08-29-2008, 12:52 AM   #2
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Ohhhh...CHARLIE!!!

I am so excited and happy for you my friend!!!!!!
Everything is gonna be ok. I know there was a time you were probably scared about the first issue of JOURNEY coming out and you worried about it......look what happen with that charlie, it has become an amazing dream come true for you and i know worked out even better than you ever expected. Well the same thing is gonna happen with JOYS HOUSE....its gonna be amazing charlie...you'll see. Its gonna work out better than you ever expected........wanna know why?
Because GOD loves you charlie and HE has put this passion in you. This is a very wonderful thing you have begun and GOD is not gonna let you down. Amazing things have happen for you charlie and even more amazing things are comin your way.
The ad sounds good and written very well.

GOD BLESS you and all the people that have helped make this dream a reality
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